I come to worship you, Lord. I desperately need it, but I’m having a hard time getting my head in a right place.
“Nothing in my hands I bring”?
Hardly. I come with wounds and weariness. There are stains on my soul. Battle stains. ‘I am for peace, but when I speak, they are for war’
…have mercy, O Christ…I am so, so tired…
Years ago I read a mostly forgettable book but for one sentence. That single line so resonated with me I can still quote it twenty years later. The author said, “Whatever the enemy wants to do to you he uses people to do it.”
Paul mentioned something to the Ephesians about the devil and his “fiery darts.” That’s real. If you’ve ever been in any kind of spiritual warfare you know it’s real.
Sometimes it’s an unkind text. Perhaps you caught an eye roll from your husband or a hurtful facial expression from your fellow staff member. Maybe you walked into a café and spotted your friend at a table with your least favorite person.
There was a time I had to take a strong stand as a pastor, and some of my dearest friends questioned my position. I had made enemies in the church and now even my friends were turning against me. Sandy and I were utterly bereft. I called my spiritual mentor and cried through the entire conversation. It was easily one of the lowest points of my life.
This was during a time our son was not doing well at all, constantly rebelling and deepening our sorrow. It was all too much. The devil was setting up bulwarks and laying siege to our home and Sandy and I felt completely cut off and alone.
Fiery darts, man. One day you’re going along happy as you please when a stranger cusses you out for trying to change lanes. Sometimes those fiery darts come in the form of words flung from people you are supposed to trust. Those are the hardest.
Sandy and I can easily put ourselves in the sandals of this pilgrim who has just come through a war zone. He stands on the bottom step of the temple, knees feeble, arms hanging. The man is spent. And he desperately needs a kind word from God.
In those seasons, of which we are in one now, the only comfort we have is the word of God.
Here we are, Lord, standing on the bottom step.
too stressed to bless
Psalm 120 is the first of fifteen worship songs created for pilgrims on their way to Jerusalem to celebrate a national feast day. The subscript in your Bible might read “ascent” since Jerusalem was “up” to the travelers; others call them “step” psalms to indicate the fifteen steps taking the pilgrims up into the Temple.
So this psalm is the very first step. Problem is, our soloist is already tired before he even begins. The journey starts out rough. This worshiper is struggling to get to church and now he’s wondering if he should even go. Maybe just turn this caravan around. Check out.
In my distress I called to the LORD…
Psalm 120:1
“Distress.” The word he uses in the opening verse means ‘rival wife.’ It’s possible he wants us to think about Hannah in 1 Samuel 1:6-7 where we find the same word. Read the highlighted text if you aren’t familiar with her story. The insults she got from her rival wife Peninnah were taunting her all the way to the tabernacle.
By the time she arrived, she was too stressed to bless the Lord. She went anyway. Hannah yearned for a kind word from God.
In some forms the word means ‘pebble’ and you can see how well that ties in. Ever tried to walk anywhere with a stone in your shoe?
What was so distressing? Why the furrowed brow, mate?
The very next verse tells us:
Deliver me, O LORD,
from lying lips,
from a deceitful tongue.
Psalm 120:2
Like Hannah, this weary worshipper was harassed by people who did not share his heart. They were unsafe. The taunts he received were an amalgam of bald-faced lies and honeyed words that hid a sharpened knife.
Our pilgrim in this story pulled into the church parking lot feeling like he’d been through a war zone. I’m pretty sure he wanted to put his feet in reverse and go home. Or maybe he realized he was home, the safest spot on earth.
“Woe is me!” he cries from the first step.
meshechites among us
Woe to me, that I sojourn in Meshech,
that I dwell among the tents of Kedar!
Psalm 120:5
Eugene Peterson sets the stage:
Meshech and Kedar were barbarian tribes with a reputation for wildness. They were neighbors to the biblical Hebrews. The person who prayed Psalm 120 was praying in the company of people who were on their way to worship God in Jerusalem but feeling immersed in enmity, lying lips, and a deceitful tongue. He is committed to a way of peace, God‘s peace, but he feels hostility all around him. ‘I am for peace,’ he says, ‘but when I speak, they are for war.’
—Eugene Peterson, Practice Resurrection, 135
Some people are always spoiling for a fight. They quite enjoy starting fires. Their demeanor is mostly antagonistic, but if you happen to catch them on a good day, count your blessings.
Our pilgrim worshipper had come through a string of bad days. Like a certain apostle, he was “troubled on every side…distressed…persecuted…knocked down.” There seemed to be no end to the assaults. Enmity was everywhere.
a closing word
Sometimes the enmity never lets up. You pray, plead, beg, cry, and practically crawl for resolution, but no help comes. Unfortunately, this psalm doesn’t end on a high note. However, we mustn’t forget a very important truth: the very next step offers a better view of things.
I hear you: Lord, hurry up and get me on the next step!
Sandy and I are right there with you.
If perchance you read on you’ll find the worshipper ascending to a new step. In fact, go ahead and read the next psalm now; we could all use some of its encouragement.
I’ll give you the highlights, the better vantage points from the next step:
- My Source is true, theirs is a lie
- My strength and hope comes from God
- He’s wide awake; he sees what’s happening
- He’s right beside me, protecting me
The last thing I’ll say is this. Our weary traveler is not alone. Yes, of course God is with him. But he’s also in a company of fellow travelers.
They’ve heard the taunts too. They’ve also been blindsided. They are people of faith of whom can be said, ”They understand. They’ve been there also. They have scars too.” Know they are standing with you on the first step, linking arms, holding you up.
No matter how bad I am feeling, how lost or lonely or frightened, when I see the faces of the people at my church, and hear their tawny voices, I can always find my way home.
—Ann Lamott
Selah, beloved.
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Amen brother
Thank you Jon. Prayers for you, my friend.
Steps make me tired. I realize how out of shape I am in climbing them. Physically, Spiritually, Mentionally, ……… Praying as we and for the climb Love you friends !!
Good word, Karen! Sanctification makes me tired … and breaking, and repenting, and every bit of it but I surely need it if I’m going to “come forth like gold.”
Love you bunches. Miss you, everyone, and Georgia terribly.
So grateful for the promise of the next step…. now if I can just trust HIM for strength to …lift …my… foot. Somehow through your words, I heard HIS heart reminder that HE isn’t disappointed with the weariness. HE is AWARE and PRESENT and PROTECTING. HE is my SOURCE… even for strength to lift my foot. Thank you for being HIS pen!
One of the blessings of the bottom step is the our Savior is a God who stoops! He is not ashamed to come low for the ones who are barely standing. Oh He is good! Better than good! His arm is not too short to save! As always, Kelli, I am bolstered in my faith by your sibling love and encouragement. Thank you thank you thank you.