Sandy and I know some couples contemplating marriage and it’s always a kick watching the young stirrings of love. Or, as it’s painted for us in the Songs, when love has found its right time to be “awakened.”
I always ask in interviews, “Why exactly are you getting married?” and pay judicial attention to the response. Anything less than,
…And I’m not fully satisfied. “We’re just so in love” or “We’re meant for each other” may be acceptable replies but still fall short of the mark. “It just feels right” or “It’s the next logical step for us” are further afield and send up some yellow flags.
Take a look at Larissa and Ian’s story and see if you can’t find the portrait of love awakened and the gospel more beautifully put on display. I thought our story was something (and still do!) but theirs is also a match truly made in heaven.
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The question everyone is asking after seeing this – Why? – is satisfyingly answered here, in Larissa’s own words, “Why We Got Married”.
This speaks to the heart and soul of a God-joined marriage.